‘Your method of education – not only for English – is funny, creative, ingenious and you have brought out the best from my son. I have rarely seen him so happy and satisfied and now he is glad to have foreign friends with whom he can share experiences from different cultures which will open his mind. He now has confidence in himself and in his ability, no Italian school has been able to do this. He is more mature and responsible and more creative and open to the world’ (an Italian parent); ‘It has been the most wonderful time of my life’ (a Dutch student); ‘I can honestly say that this experience was the best month of my life, not only because of all the events such as Man o’ Man, EuroVision, and Sports Day, but because of the fantastic people that I met from all over the world. I have left with contacts from Russia, Poland, Holland, Italy, Spain, Germany and many many more. And although the Course is just one month long, the intensity of living with these people constantly results in the formation of such close friendships which I know will remain with me forever.’ (a UK student); ‘Thank you for your professionalism as well as for your warmest hearts in managing Vacational Studies. I could not help but feel how much care you’ve put in! As a parent, I feel very confident that he will be well cared for, and that there will be a very precious experience waiting for him. I am so happy that I was able to discover Vacational Studies’ (a Japanese parent); ‘My experience at Mary Hare was amazing. I really enjoyed every second of it. I had already made my first friend at the airport. I talked to two of the teachers on the way to Mary Hare and they gave me very good confidence and expectations of the Course by being friendly and forthcoming. We had two brilliant teachers who also contributed to the social side. I am sure that these friendships that I have made will last for a long time. By meeting people from the whole planet, I have become much more international and have a better picture of how people are in different cultures. My eyes have opened for much more than the small village, in the small islands, I am living in. Most importantly I have the courage to talk English. The students were great. They were friendly, funny, kind and open-minded. This summer was a very big experience for me and I will certainly remember it all my life’ (a student from the Faroe Islands); ‘Thank you for another wonderful VacStuds experience; Mary Hare wasn’t half as bad as they made it out to be at Cheam!’ (an ex-Cheam teacher); ‘Since his arrival he has not stopped talking and comment how good it happened, the friends you made and how nice it is school and how much he has learned. He wants to come back next year and has promised good grades as a reward. His brother 10 years sees how happy he has come and wants to go next year also along with it. We have noticed a change for the better. We feel he has matured and is more happy and peaceful. Thanks to the whole team of people working at school’ (a Spanish parent); ‘I had the pleasure of welcoming back my son again after 4 weeks at Vac Studies where he clearly had a fantastic time and a thoroughly enriching experience. May I commend you on the superb organisation that you have set up and developed. My wife and I would also like to thank you sincerely for giving him such an amazing opportunity and so much enjoyment and fulfillment’ (a UK parent); ‘I never imagined that I would be able to do Angolan dance moves, sell myself as a slave, nor be part of a film that I was genuinely proud of which was able to scare our peers. This opportunity has helped me develop into a more confident and cultured young adult’ (another UK student); ‘When I saw my brother crying, I knew that he had the same feelings about the four weeks as I had two years ago’ (a Dutch ex-student and staff member); ‘We would like to thank you for a fantastic stay at Mary Hare this summer. They came home full of spirit and joy, and had had a super month. All that they have experienced, all the friends they have met, will be with them forever. From a homesick start the first days/week, everything developed the way we and they had hoped for. They will be good ambassadors to their friends where they will tell all about an incredible month with good organization from morning to night’ (a Norwegian parent); ‘We want to thank you very much for the beautiful time, our kids had at VacStuds. They liked the stay so much and talk all the time about all their new friends and the nice events. They want to return 2012′ (a German parent); ‘I wanted to thank you and your staff for the quality of the course and this unique experience’ (a French relative); ‘Although it wasn’t always easy for us (as parents) to let go the control and contact, we really do appreciate the gain of self-consciousness for both of our kids. The result of these 4 weeks in England for our kids was even more than a combination of fun, additional language skills and lots of friends from all over the world’ (a German parent); ‘Had the best month of my life, all over again! MH 2011 miss you all so much’ (a Norwegian student).
And there are many more comments. Modesty prevents my indulging in more quotations.
‘What’s your complaints procedure?’ asked the British Council Inspector this summer during our two-day four-yearly Inspection. ‘But I suppose you don’t get any.’ We certainly seem to deal in happy young people having the time of their lives and parents who are relaxed about entrusting their children to my care. I wouldn’t want to have it any other way.
And the summer of 2011 that has helped to shape the lives of almost 200 youngsters? Read on.
This was the summer of the Big Change. The creation of four schools within a School; the year it all came together at The Mary Hare.
‘How are you enjoying having everything in one place?’ I was asked many times. ‘It’s having it all in one place that makes it so enjoyable’ was my reply. It meant I could get to know the children far comprehensively than before and cast a critical eye over our work to see how the fantastic experience we have given young people for 39 years could be made even better. The British Council Inspectors were helpful in their analysis of our work and enabled me to see just what there is in the construction of the Course that leads to its instant success year on year.
One thing is the students. That they come mainly on recommendation is vital. We have the right sort of person with us: those who want to come; to have an international experience; to have the time of their life. And there are the staff. That so many teachers come back and back is because they (as Karen put it for my video camera) ‘can’t imagine a summer without VacStuds’). The sports/social side works from Day One because UK Reps become sports staff and, because they know what it’s like to be a student, because they all come from Norwich School and because they have all been through the private school system with its ethos and culture, they immediately bond as a team. It’s a complex arrangement that has been built up over decades and not one shared by those organisations that seek to emulate mine.
Back for his fourth summer at Mary Hare in a Managerial capacity was Tom Goodwin. He is brilliant with children. To work on those aspects of the Course with which he is not so familiar, as Office Manager, was Jon Ireland, back for his third time. To keep the teachers happy and deal with issues as and when they arose – well, this was the theory – was a huge teacher support team with Joe Wallis in his sixth year as Academic Manager, Karen Damianou (née Thompson) was back for a fifth year as Senior Teacher and Assistant Course Manager, Emma Whitehouse was Senior Teacher in her third year with us and Chloe Huelamo was back for her fifth year with us as Teaching Co-ordinator.
All have DELTA qualifications courtesy of Vacational Studies. As teachers, Nico Damianos returned for a fourth time. Dale Ogilvy and Jon Iveson returned for a third summer. Katy Hubble and Matt Midgley returned for a second time, as did Bernardo Savill. Newcomers were Stephen Christodoulou, Mariam Elgammal, Katie Harris, Emma Henderson, Andy Houwen, Alex Linley, Thomas Olszewski and Moses Stevens.
Ex-UK Rep, Hugh Irving was back for the fourth time as Senior Sports/Social Organiser. Charlie Horwood returned for a fourth summer and Matt Jamieson and Ali Pearson (also ex-UK Reps) returned for a second summer as Sports/Social Organisers. As Sports Assistants, former UK Rep Lewis Weaver was back for a third summer as was Rachel Lewis. New-comer Sports Assistants were the entertaining Cameron Cook, Matt Debney, Joe Mac-Donald, Johannes Staufenberg and ex-Staff Helpers the hard-working Yannick Mol and Kathy Storm. Staff Helpers were the everactive Veronica Martins (Portugal) and Hedvig Wennevold (Norway). Dealing with illnesses and conditions real and imagined was Meg Clements in her fourth year as Matron.
The UK Reps (chosen after a rigorous interview at Norwich School by the Trustees of the Vacational Studies Foundation) were the gregarious Rebecca Cadman, the ubiquitous Tom Dell, the sportsmanlike Lewis Hall and the charismatic Joe Wistow. All were superb in the context of the Course and fantastic ambassadors for British youth. All of them entered into the spirit of the Course with abandon – ‘stripped of all modesty’, as Joe put it. All will be invited to return for a period in the summer of 2012 as Apprentices in preparation for possible staff applications in 2013.
As ambassadors for their own countries, we had some exceptional young people with us. I came to know them, many in some depth, at the Board Meetings which were part of the ‘Ideal International Student’ process started in 2010 and developed in 2011. The winner of this year’s ‘Ideal International Student Competition’ was Giulio Rosati who is, no doubt, enjoying his iPad 2.
The prize for Academic Excellence was awarded to Ebba Håkansson (Sweden); for English-speaking to Jantje Bouman (Netherlands).
Appearing at both schools, accompanied by three ten-and-a-half year-olds called Piers, Ian and Lars, was Melissa Freeman, my super ChildCare Assistant who explored the woods and grounds with them, played with them all day and kept them very happy indeed for the first part of the Course and then by the equally talented Adam Watkin back for a third year with us now as ChildCare Assistant.
Matt Debney and Lewis Weaver took Lifeguarding qualifications sponsored by Vacational Studies and were i/c the swimming pool.
The regular discos were provided by ‘Pink Elephant Roadshow’. The students loved them.
Our link with The Mary Hare was Ian Frey whose knowledge of the School gave me enormous help from the initial dorm placements to the final storage of our masses of equipment. ‘We see you as a major business partner’ is Mary Hare’s view of Vacational Studies. 2012 will be our 30th summer at Mary Hare. Our relationship is rock solid.
And there was me – praising, admonishing, checking, filming and photographing, dispensing justice – once again a deus ex Mercedes, loving every moment, of course, and no longer having to drive across Newbury several times a day.
The ides of communicating with parents via photos and film clips of their children having a great time that I introduced in 2009 was continued with the enhancement of trying to show this great time while it was being had, so day and night my computer uploaded onto Shutterfly the daily photos and video clips that were on my EOS 7 and Ixus 300. At the same time, I was filming with my HD video camera for the end of Course ‘VacStuds 2011 All Over Again’ DVD. The response from parents has been very positive, although on days of extreme busyness when I simply could not put up with an internet connection slowed to a crawl by the uploads, there was a concern that no news must be bad news. Another concern was that children when adults could be saddled with pictures of themselves when they were young and that that these were too accessible. My own view on this is that I have no concern about photos of my own children being on the web. The photos are anonymous and are just representations of them – not them as people. Under UK law, no one has a right to his own image. That right lies with the photographer. Parents love seeing photos and films of their children and to see them happy is enormously reassuring. If only one parent objected, I would not be able to show any photos or films just in case this one child might appear in the background. So I have inserted an agreement to photos and films on the 2011 application form.
As in the last few years, wherever I went I was Quasimodo, bedecked in an SLR camera, a digital camera and HD film camera. I shall carry on keeping parents updated about what is happening.
The change from ‘British Students’ to ‘UK Reps’ was very successful in 2010 and 2011. They lived with the students, were subject to the same rules, but they arrived with the staff and were allocated to help classes by the Director of Studies and Senior Teachers. They were answerable directly to me. As they can be of great help in creating an English-speaking environment, we shall offer a place at each House to Norwich School as for the past two decades. UK Reps come to us under stringent conditions, including the prohibition of boy/girlfriends so that they will be open to all students. They were ‘on probation’ for the first week. At the end of this week, we decided if they should stay. The awareness of the tenuous nature of their place seems to be a motivating factor and will be continued in 2012.
‘Making the Ideal International Student’ was a process I introduced in 2010. In this process, each student was invited to compile a portfolio to include some ideas on why they thought they had come to us; what they could gain from the experience; what they did to gain from the experience; what effect it had on them and on other people.
In a slight change for 2011, the students had their first meeting at the end of Week One. Each student appeared with his or her class at a ‘Board Meeting’ comprising several staff with me as Chairman. At the Board Meeting, each student was invited to reflect on the Course experience with reference to the above concepts, using the portfolio as an aide memoire. If needed, I gave prompts to encourage articulation.
I call the process, ‘making the ideal international student’ because the ideal international student is what each person can become. The result was remarkable. Almost everyone was reflective and sensitive to what the Course could do for them. Several told the Board how they felt they had benefited from the suggestion that they should reflect and that it had opened their eyes to possibilities that would have otherwise eluded them. The opportunity to take part in a formal conversation on an abstract subject disciplined their thought processes and obliged them to use a vocabulary that had been passive before.
Most students had an excellent awareness of the theory of how to benefit from the Course, but the Board also looked at how this was put into practice to see if the theory matched the reality and made its judgment accordingly. It also gave us the chance to know every one of our students as never before.
In Week Three all the students were invited back to the Board Room to opine on how they were benefiting from the experience; what effect it was having on them; what they felt they could do to benefit even more in the week or so remaining. I thought it useful to push this meeting forward so that there was still time to act on their theories. In these meetings I gave no prompts. The students were by now confident enough to speak for themselves extempore. Those who did well were awarded Vaccles.
‘The Process’ then changed to become ‘The Competition’. I invited the best 12, if they wanted, to appear for a last time in front of the School to talk on ‘Making the Ideal International Student’. I also invited anyone not chosen by me to appear, if they wished. The result was a succession of remarkable and eloquent young people, prepared to talk emotionally, philosophically and personally on how the Course had touched them.
As one of them astutely observed, there is no such thing as a single ‘ideal student’. The shortlists were long and included many exceptional young people, but in terms of the all-round qualities we were looking for, there could only be one winner and I made the final selection based on advice from the Board. The Ipad 2 went to Giulio Rosati (Italy).
It is important that all parents read this section. The relationship between ourselves and the parents of children in our care is a partnership. We want all our young people to get the most out of the experience. For this reason, I have written a ‘Parental Control Condition’ into the contract we have with parents.
In brief, I say ‘We do our best to fulfill our ‘duty of care’ under English law based on good will and the trust established by your and your child’s agreement to the ‘rules’ as evidenced by the signed ‘Agreement and Travel Details’ form. If we think a problem is likely to arise, we shall try to contact you before it does so it can be prevented. Nevertheless, if your child’s attitude or behaviour is such that we find we cannot exercise the control required to fulfill our ‘duty of care’, we shall pass responsibility for control to the parent either by requesting the parent’s presence or by telephone contact with the child. If this fails and we decide the child is beyond control, we shall expel.’
Generally we have excellent support from parents. Occasionally, we do not. There is no child who does not accept that they sometimes do wrong, make mistakes or act aberrationally. What children accept so readily is unacceptable to a tiny minority of parents. For their child to do wrong must mean that the child is a victim of circumstance and that someone else must be to blame. Some also find it hard to transfer responsibility for their child to a third party – us – and believe they must provide a constant input. All we ask is that parents leave everything to us, in the knowledge that (i) they will hear if there is a problem, (ii) no news is good news, (iii) we have experience in dealing with children, (iv) their child may make mistakes, (v) we shall try to work with them if the child does make a mistake, but (vi) if what their child does is serious enough for us to require that child’s removal from the Course, they must comply at once.
We do what we can to encourage students to learn and use the Course to advantage. We do our best to look after them. We make no other claims. We cannot force a child to integrate. While we provide encouragement, they must help themselves. They will find others who speak their language and they may be tempted to take the easy way. They may come with friends from home. We cannot keep friends apart. They must decide to broaden their international horizons, mix and use English. Parents may make requests, but we reserve the right to place students in what we consider to be appropriate classes and dormitories. The final report we write will be our frank assessment.
As the teaching/learning situations are different, it may not be similar to the school report you are accustomed to. The Course is a communal experience. Individual freedom is restricted. Our school buildings are houses in a boarding school – not an hotel.
Accommodation, washrooms, etc. are shared. Bathrooms may be away from dormitories. Clothes storage space may be limited. All sorts of compromises have to be made, but for most young people this is part of the fun. We also ask parents to accept that telephone contact with their children, especially in the first few days, is not a good idea. We ask that mobile phones are not brought. We are not being difficult, just putting into practice what we know from experience works. In effect, what we are requesting is a partnership between us based on our expertise and parents’ trust in us. What we provide and the parameters of what we permit are in our literature. We act on the assumption that parents and students read it all. If your child is interested in drinking, smoking, going out at night and leading an independent life, please choose another organisation less restrictive than ours. We assume that parents will be realistic about their children. We exercise due control, but they have the freedom to do things that are wrong. If they do, there are repercussions outlined in the ‘Notes’. We do what we can to prevent rule-breaking, but if it happens, parents must accept that it is occasioned by their child’s free will, not lack of control on our part.
Let me put it into context. Ours is a new, exciting and active environment.
Parental control appears absent. Our students are a long way from home, without the constraints and re-sponsibilities that tend to check behavioural excess. No doubt there is also the desire to impress one’s peers. They may call it ‘being carried away’. Whatever the causes, occasionally a few of our students may indulge in behaviour that is simply anti-social. If they get caught, they may feel they have little to lose. Protected by this feeling that no one of importance will ever know, I am aware that some students have broken our rules and even the law. All students come to us after a ‘letter of recommendation’ has been written about them by their school. To remove this feeling of anonymity and to encourage students to take responsibility for their own actions, we write frank reports to parents. We reserve the right to send the writer of the original ‘letter of recommendation’ a photocopy of any correspondence we have with parents about children in our care.
We have also noticed that some parents encourage children to break our rules. Henceforward this will constitute a breach of contract. I write more about this under ‘Mobile Phones‘.
The students who adjust best are those whose parents phone them only on the two ‘Telephone Sundays’. If these parents wish to know how their child is adjusting, they phone the Course Manager and ask.
There are some parents who feel they must speak to their children frequently. We ask parents who must speak to their children outside ‘Telephone Sundays’ to phone the payphone after 21.00, not our School Office number. We cannot search for children in a large building and campus. The payphone may ring unanswered. A student may answer it. If so, that student can be asked to search for a student. That student may or may not comply with the request
Mobile phones are not useful in the context of the Course. The time young people spend with us develops their sense of independence. They need to be able to cope with small challenges on their own. An immediate call home at the first sign of a problem delays the growing up process that is a part of the Course. The only time a phone is useful is when a child is away from the school. We allow mobile phones to be used only on trip days. In line with UK Government Education Department advice on the possible health hazard for young people of microwaves near the developing brain in an enclosed environment, we do not permit students to use mobile phones freely inside the school. We prefer that a mobile phone is not brought. Any mobile phone brought must be kept in the office. We accept no responsibility for loss of or damage to mobile phones that are brought. Any mobile phone kept other than in the office will be removed for the duration of the Course. We shall treat in the same way as a mobile phone, a laptop computer and any device that uses a wi-fi connection.
Our restrictions on mobile phones are clear and in our rules to which parents have given their signed agreement. Just as parents have trusted us for 39 years to provide exactly what we describe, we trust parents to abide by the agreement they have signed. We have found that some parents have told their children not to hand in mobile phones or have given them a second phone to keep hidden. We cannot discipline children for the actions of parents who undermine us.
By the same token we cannot accept responsibility for children who selectively break our rules at the request of parents. We consider this makes it impossible for us to exercise our duty of care. We shall consider this a breach of contract and request that the child be removed.
Most students request a visit to the theatre. There will be a limited number of tickets for each of four or five shows. The visit to ‘Macbeth’ in Stratford-upon-Avon proved very popular, so the choice for 2012 may not be only West End musicals. I shall upload a form onto our website two months before the Course begins, so requests can be made on the form and the scan emailed to me. Tickets will be allocated in the order the scanned forms are received.
I have tickets for an Olympic football match at the new Wembley Stadium
on 1 August. Allocation will be by a form which will be uploaded to our website in May.
Parents are welcome to contact me on any matter. In July and August I can be anywhere. For practical reasons, therefore, it is best to make contact with me during the Courses on my mobile phone +44 7717 007 007 or, if it is to find out how a child is, the Course Manager is best placed to give this information on +44 1635 244 221.
If possible, we like to have a male and/or a female former student on the Course as unpaid helpers, providing a link between staff and students. They tend to be 18-21 and to have left a gap of one summer after being a student. SHs are chosen on 31 March. Potential SHs should contact me before 1 March. If ‘leadership potential’ or an equivalent phrase is mentioned in my letter accompanying the final report, this suggests that a SH application would be considered favourably.
The previous year’s UK Reps occasionally visit for a few days to gain experience helping with the Course before they apply for Sports jobs. I have decided to formalise this arrangement by giving them a title ‘Apprentices’. They will be invited by me for varying periods to work with ‘The Crew’.
Please feel you can contact me about anything connected with Britain. For example, parents ask for my advice on continuing their children’s education in Britain. I am happy to help. No charge! I see this as a natural extension of my work with young people. Students ask for information, sometimes ten or twenty years later or more.
Our logo and the words Vacational Studies and the names of some of the schools we have used have been registered as trade marks. We have no connection with any other organisation – whether with a similar or dissimilar name and programme.
This exists to encourage international understanding. Every year, we have students who make an exceptional contribution to the international aims of the Course or who are internationally-minded. These may like to consider joining the Association.
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This enables our students to keep in touch with friends from when they were students with us and to make new contacts for social or professional purposes.
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The Vacational Studies Foundation was registered as a Charity
under English Law in January 2000 to assist talented young
people.
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My father, who was Company Secretary from the founding of Vacational Studies until his death in 2003, was a great support to me. In his memory, the Jörg Weise Association has donated in perpetuity a full Scholarship which I am able to award when I come across a young person who would benefit from our Courses, but cannot apply for financial reasons. If you know one, tell me.
is for those connected with Vacational Studies to continue to relate to us and to each other. Click here for more details
exists because it can exist, but I have yet to be convinced of its worth.
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Vacstuds.com is our ‘shopwindow’ and main medium of communication. All our ‘literature’ is there. There is no point now in our printing anything on paper, especially as information can be updated in seconds. We expect all parents to have internet access and to check the ‘Latest News’ section at vacstuds.com for the latest news and links to the information we produce. We occasionally send e-mails to everyone and ask that vacstuds.com is included as an allowed address so that messages from us are not seen as spam.
…to all those who trusted with the care of their children this summer. It is a privilege for me to meet some of the most personable, intelligent and charming young people in the world. and to know that, since 1973, those who have been through the Vacational Studies experience can say that these are ‘days I’ll remember all my life.’
For those who are
interested, my second book about my adventures (‘And Then
There Were Three – Expanded Edition’ (ISBN 1903933730)) was
published in June 2006 and is available inter alia via
www.amazon.com. I have put the entire text on www.andthentherewerethree.co.uk
A third book will appear when I have
finished writing it.
IGM – Autumn 2011
